What's your creed?

The hardest part about growing up is not about realizing that everything you believed in or everything you adulated about life was a big fat lie and a piece of crap,it's accepting the same.


Realizing is easy, every one around you would help you realize the reality, make sure you are all ears to their pessimistic opinions because of their factually proven experiences.
But you ignored them, you were too self-boasting and narcissistic to accept their views. You believed it's one-in-a-million possibility that anything can ever deter your faith, belief, opinion or dreams.

The truth is, all this vanity on your part lands you to a point in time when that one fateful event happens and it shatters up every single belief you had since childhood, sucks up all those exultant emotions you thought you would never let go off your face. Sure enough, there maybe plenty of moments capable of shuddering your credence throughout your life, but there are only a few of them capable of completely ripping it apart.


Maybe it's because of how we grow up, maybe it's because of how we are brought up. Every single desire met, centre-of-attention, cared , got-what-i-want philosophy and what not. Maybe it's because of what we see, what we are made to believe, not by real life but by fiction, books, movies , TV etc. Every child grows up believing he's special, every child grows up believing he's born to do something special. Realization of this being a complete hogwash comes fast and early but the same isn't true for acceptance.  

You believed that when things aren't going right, or not going your way; it simply means it's not yet the time for it to go your way.The hard part is accepting that the time you are waiting for, isn't ever going to come, it's never going to go your way. The hardest part is to give up even though you don't want to. Letting go of your creed is all that life is all about and it's all that life teaches you.